Hello Folks
getting over is another day of the year and coming tomorrow are another hopes...
And here we are back with some serious thinking business.
Today lets talk about life - surely life isn't serious but requires serious analysis.
I hope that all will agree that life is never the same always - just like a flowing river. It has crests and troughs , ups and downs.
What we need to do during the crests we need not talk about it...
we all wish that this time stays forever but the flow is turbulent , there are depressions so , during those we fight hard to gain the heights again or I should say we strive for the pursuit of happiness.
But lets talk about that particular , very special state , in general linguistics known as 'The Hardships'.
Well just think you get a job of $ 10k a month , how would you feel?
you will be happy , obviously you will be , you parents would feel proud of you , by seeing this - their happiness , again you will be more happy.
you will spend on things you have coveted for long.
you would probably get the latest sedan in the market or a thunder sonic bike , your status in the society will be lifted, and eventually people will be envious of you.
thats all or can be a thing or two more but that would only exaggerate your bliss.
well I can feel how elated you would be feeling right now after reading these lines but wait , lets dive a little deeper.
All the above mentioned phenomena is very common to you , to me and to everyone out there I suppose.
Now , I want to judge a person , his will power , his positivity , his persona , his mettle.
the question is can I?
How can I?
Everyone is happy for getting a job of $10k a month.
To solve our purpose lets try to frame a solution by pondering over the contrary side.
The Hardships.--------------
I work damn hard , with diligence and skill.
I give my full to every task I undertake.
I land up with no job or say a job of $100 a month which is far under what I deserve.
What I should do?
(Now be careful)
Have a look what Mr. A,B,C and S do...
Mr. A
I lose hope , I am depressed .I curse myself for being such an asinine.I feel indignation for god. I yell at back of my boss, my colleagues.
I keep normally now in a sulky mood.
I shout at everyone , there is no justice in this world.
To hell with everyone! To hell with this world! What a Fish !
Mr. B
Oh my god , I cant believe this . No this is impossible , I mean see him man , he does not has even 10 % of my potential and earns about 100 times that I do.
Disgusting!
Why I studied? Why I did not slept for nights and days?
Why , When everyone was having a carousal ,I was swimming in the books ? Why I was Supplicating to GOOGLE ?
Why?
There is no place for me in this world.
I am ruined .
Everything has finished.
SO , I QUIT!
BANG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
BREAKING NEWS : A XYZ GRADUATE , Mr. B , COMMITS SUICIDE .
Mr. C
Oh Man! this should not have happened.
Where I left any stone unturned ?
Well but now there is no point beating about the bush , so lets get on with what I have got.
If this is the result of working hard then its good not to.
So many problems I overcame.
So many hardships I suffered.
Still the consequence is this.
Perhaps I am not skillful enough.This is my destiny.
Mr. S
Whew! not a price which I deserve but nevertheless something is much better than nothing. Its good that I would gain some experience while I can make more plans for a bright future and lets get to know the firm , who knows there can be a growth potential that I can explore take the organisation to heights.
Lets show them what I have got in bags for them and I will also get to apply my knowledge and explore the real world difficulties so that I can be careful in future.
I have worked hard and hard work pays , though a little late sometimes but it does pays.
I got to be patient and look for the doors of opportunities.
Lets get ready!
So folks !
Were you able to see the difference?
Were you able to make any judgments?
Which one you would like to be?
Well any one you choose but the point I wanted to make clear I suppose I have done justice.
It is the tough times in which a man is tested , same applies for a woman also!
Moreover, there is one more observation I would like to share.
You study i class V
you give the examination and are promoted to class VI.
now again in the final examination I give you class V paper.
What happens?
A fish for you!
but you did not got the chance to practice the things you learned in standard VI.
Now if go on giving you a class V paper every year would you learn anything ?
you would become pampered and unaware of the parlous difficulties that exist in the world.
Now, try to think on parallel lines...
If you overcome a hardship , a suffering you are made stronger , you learn how to handle pressure situations.
You become perspicacious.
Thus , you unlock the next level of problems , difficulties , hardships in your life.
You master them also and then again the higher level is reached.
The loop goes on - "STRONGER YOUR DEFENCE , YOUR RESISTANCE BECOMES , MORE SUFFERINGS TURN YOUR WAY"
The key is not to lose hope but to hit hard in face of every difficulty , to implement what you have learned at every level.
But then how I become happy?
You are happy at every level itself because you achieve something on passing a level.
Aren't you happy on being promoted to class X.
the degree of happiness or say the result in our example depend upon how hard you hit the boulder.
How well you handle pressure , how you maintain you cool , how much positive you are.
With great Defence comes great pains but also great achievements.
So that at last , in life , the higher the levels you have unlocked , the more you have achieved.
The whole world remembers you forever.
Your name becomes immortal.
You appear as an inspiration in millions of textbooks worldwide.
This is eternal glory.
So never be frustrated that your sufferings and hardships are going on incessantly.
but try to focus on the other side , your achievements , be proud for them , be happy to get them.
Life has two parts - one to be lived , enjoyed with your loved ones and the other to be dealt with valor and mettle.
Learn to be resilient.
I hope reading this would have motivated you.
It does the trick for me.
Do not fear , Only be Lively!
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